Will The Gays Win? No!
By Mike McManus
Gays have won significant victories in the last couple of weeks. First, there
was the unanimous decision by the Iowa Supreme Court to legalize same-sex
marriage. There have been other top state court decisions but they were always
5-4, barely enough to win. It was also the first state to take this step in the
Second, Vermont not only became the first state to legalize gay marriage by the
Legislature, but also without pressure from a court case, as in Massachusetts.
Third, the governor vetoed the bill, but the Legislature overrode the veto.
Fourth, the Washington DC City Council voted unanimously last week to recognize
same-sex marriage performed elsewhere. All recognize this is a half step toward
However, I believe the battle will ultimately be won by supporters of
traditional marriage. Remember that the Germans were ahead in 1943.
Take Iowa, where the Supreme Court declared there was no "constitutionally
adequate" justification to prevent "same-sex marriage" Iowans disagree. A
February 2008 Iowa Poll showed 62 percent of Iowans believe marriage should be
only between one man and one woman, with only 32 percent saying it should not.
Who will lead the opposition? Start with religious leaders.
Within hours, Iowa's Catholic bishops "strongly disagreed" with the
decision, calling it "unwarranted social engineering" weakening the relationship
between marriage and parenting. "This decision rejects the wisdom of thousands
of years of human history. It implements a novel understanding of marriage,
which will grievously harm families and children," they wrote. The rights of
marriage "are not something that the state creates or may redefine."
Religious leaders have had many victories hardly mentioned in recent
weeks. In California, for example, evangelicals joined Catholics to lead a
52-48 percent victory for Prop 8's limit of marriage to joining a man and woman.
And that was the 30th state constitutional amendment limiting marriage to
heterosexual couples. Only three states have gay marriage.
The good guys are winning by a 10-1 margin.
Maggie Gallagher, President of the National Organization for Marriage,
quotes Vaclav Havel saying "Truth and love will prevail over lies and hate."
She adds, "On that basis Havel took on the Soviet empire. Where is the
invincible empire now?"
"Same sex marriage is founded on a lie about human nature: `There's no
difference between a same-sex and opposite sex unions and you are a bigot if you
disagree.' Political movements can - sometimes at great human cost and with
great output of energy - sustain a lie but eventually political regimes founded
on lies collapse in on themselves."
She asks, "What does losing marriage mean? First, the rejection of the
idea that children need a mom and dad as a cultural normůSecond, the
redefinition of traditional religious faiths as the moral and legal equivalent
of racists. The proposition on the table right now is that our faith itself is a
form of bigotry."
The Washington Post, hardly a conservative paper, published examples
recently: "A Christian photographer was forced by the New Mexico Civil Rights
Commission to pay $6,637 in attorney's costs after she refused to photograph a
gay couple's commitment ceremony.
"A psychologist in Georgia was fired after she declined for religious
reasons to counsel a lesbian about her relationship. Christian fertility doctors
in California who refused to artificially inseminate a lesbian patient were
barred by the state Supreme Court from invoking their religious beliefs in
"It really is all about religious liberty for us," said Scott Hoffman,
chief administrative officer of a New Jersey Methodist group, the Ocean Grove
Camp Meeting Association, which lost a property tax exemption after it declined
to allow its beachside pavilion to be used for a same-sex union ceremony. "The
protection to not be forced to do something that is against deeply held
religious principles," reported the paper.
This sort of honest reporting will awaken a sleeping giant, millions of
Americans who believe deeply in traditional marriage and who resent any
trampling of people because of their deeply held religious convictions.
Wednesday's Washington Post even published a column by 1,000 retired
generals and admirals who argue that if Obama repeals the law stating that
homosexuality is incompatible with military service, it "would prompt many
dedicated people to leave the military."
They cite a poll that 10 percent would not reenlist and 14 percent would
consider leaving. Even the lesser number means 228,600 would exit, more than all
active-duty Marine Corps.
Some battles have been lost, but this war is not over.
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